All these self care tips have helped me upgrade my life and elevate myself to the next level. I went from being a broke and shy girl to finding a husband in 6 months, earning a 6-figure income, moving to one of the most expensive countries in the world, and most importantly—feeling at peace with myself. So I know they will do the same for you. I want to share my knowledge and empower women to become whoever they want to be. I believe women can have it all.
Today, I want to talk to you about lifestyle tips for a more elegant and sophisticated life. Perhaps you want to get rich, or maybe you simply want to become a more refined woman. With these juicy, practical tips and tricks, you’ll become that elegant girl in no time.
Tip #1: Steam Your Clothes
Let’s be real—if you aspire to be one of those rich, elegant-looking women who always seem effortlessly put together, exuding that expensive aura, do you really think they ever step out in wrinkled clothing? Absolutely not.
This is unacceptable, and details like this do matter to wealthy and educated people. It’s fine if your clothes get wrinkled throughout the day, but you should never leave your house without steaming or ironing them first.
That’s why I swear by a steamer! If you have delicate shirts or dresses that can’t be ironed, a steamer is a total game changer. Not everyone knows about this, but it’s one of the easiest ways to keep your clothes looking fresh and elegant. I bought mine on Amazon—something like this one.
Nobody really talks about the fact that—how can you travel or live without a steamer? Of course, ironing your clothes is a must, but let’s be honest—a lot of people find it too complicated and time-consuming. And when you’re traveling, it’s even more difficult to do.
This is exactly why a steamer is such a good solution. You can take it with you literally anywhere, even if you’re traveling with just hand luggage. Yes, it might be a little annoying to pack, but it’s totally doable. You don’t need any extra equipment—just this, a little tap water, and in no time, your clothes are perfectly smooth and polished, without much effort at all.
This is just such a better solution for getting all those wrinkles out of your clothes and instantly looking more polished. Because let’s be real—what’s the easiest way to look cheap? Wearing wrinkled clothes. Even if you’re wearing a designer piece that costs thousands of dollars, if it’s wrinkly, it’s not going to save you. You’ll still look unpolished.
But if you steam your clothes, no matter their price, they will always look more expensive and put together. Of course, as the day goes on, wrinkles will inevitably appear, and I’m not obsessing over that. But I do believe we should do everything possible to prevent them and leave our homes looking immaculate—or at least trying our best. After that, whatever happens is just life.
Tip #2: Try A Therapy
I’m going to make a bold statement, but I truly believe that as many people as possible should seek therapy—but only if they’re ready for it. I strongly believe that if more people around the world sought help to work through their issues and struggles, we could eventually create a better, more peaceful world. Maybe even one where people are kinder to each other.
Right now, this world feels so full of negativity and pain, and I think that negativity stems from unresolved pain. The unfortunate reality is that most people don’t confront or deal with the root cause of their pain. We all carry baggage. We all have our struggles. Some people have it harder, others have it easier, but everyone has their own story.
What’s really sad, though, is that not everyone takes the time to address those difficulties, and that leads to a cycle of negativity and unhappiness that affects not just them but everyone around them.
One of the main goals of the work I do online is to make a positive impact in this world. One of the things I want to accomplish is to normalize therapy and take the stigma away from it.
If therapy isn’t an option because of cost, I encourage you to explore self-awareness and self-reflection. Start examining how you can address the pain points from your childhood and work on understanding yourself better. I’m constantly reflecting on my mind and behavior. I do this every single day, and I can honestly say it’s helped me immensely.
For example, in my relationship, there have been many times when I could have been annoyed with my husband. But in those moments, I catch myself and ask some important questions. What’s the root of my annoyance? Does it make sense to bring it up right now? Or maybe the way I’m thinking about addressing it isn’t the best? Should I approach the situation with more gentleness and love? Ultimately, I love him, and that’s what matters.
I think the difference between me and some other people is that I’ve really come to understand that therapy isn’t something to be ashamed of. It’s not just for people who are “crazy” or mentally unstable. In fact, many strong individuals see therapy as a personal growth tool. They use it to improve themselves, grow, and become more successful in all areas of life.
Tips #3: Define Your Lifestyle Goals
Number three, define your lifestyle goals. I truly believe that the clearer your vision is of where you want to go, the easier it will be to create a strategy for getting there. I’ve heard successful millionaires say this thousands of times, and I stand by it. Without a clear end goal in mind, how can you be sure you’re on the right path? How do you measure your progress? How can you determine if task A brings you closer to your ultimate goal over task B?
Now, this doesn’t mean you need to have all the answers before you start. That would just lead to paralysis. Nothing is ever set in stone, and it’s okay to change your mind along the way, change direction, and experiment. But the more you know in advance, the better.
However, you must also take action. I encourage everyone to at least define your direction and the first few steps. What type of lifestyle do you want to live? What will make you truly happy? What emotional and material needs do you have? What are your lifestyle aspirations? What is your purpose? How can you combine all of these elements, and what will the outcome look like?
I have been talking about having a vision board for so many times before. In fact, I even have a blog post when I mention how exactly you can define your vision board: How To Create A Vision Board That Manifest For 2025
An important thing to keep in mind is not to fall into stereotypes, because only you truly know what’s best for your transformation. There is no right or wrong—what works for you is what creates your path. Take time to really think about your needs, because the focus here isn’t just on the material (though that’s important too), but on feeling happy and fulfilled in all areas of life. Reflect on what that means for you and make sure to think outside the box—don’t limit yourself to just one specific way.
At this stage, anything is possible. So dream as big as you want.
Tip #4: Your Skin & Hair Grooming Matters
Did you know that having good skin and good hair is the actual secret to looking incredibly polished at all times? Sometimes, it’s really not as complicated as it seems. If you observe affluent people and wonder why they always look so perfectly put-together, you’ll notice that most of them, if not all, take great care of their skin and hair.
You need to have acne-free skin, well-moisturized, and in good shape, and you need to have hair that is fresh, clean, and styled to perfection. Trust me when I say that your skin and hair can work miracles for your entire look.
You can even take a step back and not stress too much about what you’re wearing. What’s going on around your head will set the entire tone for your appearance. People first notice your face, so if that’s in good shape, what you wear becomes secondary.
Of course, there are other details like nails, makeup, etc., but honestly, those are secondary. The primary focus should always be on your skin and hair, so make sure to consistently put effort into these areas. Believe me, your appearance will truly level up!
Tip #5: Don’t Be Afraid To Wear Your Nicest Clothes
How can we truly feel elegant and live an elegant life if we never step into that elegant vibration or use our nicest things? This is really the key to adopting a millionaire mindset. Right now, it’s essential to get rid of that “poverty mindset” where you’re afraid to use your nicest things. You might worry about them getting worn out or feel like there will never be enough to go around.
But it’s time to let go of those fears, because that’s the mindset that holds you back. I want you to adopt a millionaire mindset, because that’s what will elevate you to the next level. It brings numerous benefits, many of which tie into the law of attraction, but that’s a topic for another time.
So, please start using the beautiful porcelain you have at home. Don’t keep saving it for a special occasion — use it every day! The same goes for what you wear. Make sure the clothes you wear most often are the nicest things you own, or at least are of such high quality that you always feel beautiful when you wear them. Don’t wait for some magical moment; elevate your everyday now!
I also want you to think about how your nicest things are charged with energy — positive energy, the kind that makes you feel luxurious, elegant, and on top of your game. When you use your nicest things, you’re exposing yourself more and more to this kind of energy. And when you consistently wire yourself with that energy, day in and day out, your life is going to change dramatically. Some people call it the law of attraction, others say that the subconscious mind starts to seek out things that align with the energy you’re surrounding yourself with.
So, I want you to start using all of your nice things. Don’t be afraid of breaking them or wearing them out. Trust me, it’s going to be worth it. By the time those things are worn out, you’ll have already elevated your life to a level where you’ll think, “I can easily replace that” or even buy something even better.
Tips #6: Be Attentive To Details
I’ve noticed that many people aren’t really paying attention to details. But what’s the difference between those who do and those who don’t? The people who pay attention to the little things stand out. They look more elegant, more put together, more refined — and there’s a reason for that.
Instead of just thinking, What should I wear? What should I do?, those who focus on details think, Okay, I need to make sure my clothes are neat, no wrinkles, no stray threads, nothing sticking out. They pay attention to these small details and ensure everything is neat and put together.
Take body language as an example. Instead of thinking, What should I do to be more elegant?, the detail-oriented person will fine-tune something small in their posture. Maybe they’re always slouched, and it gives off a certain impression. But if they straighten up just a little, their entire vibe shifts.
I want you to start thinking about the details, not just the big picture. Focus on the small things and start analyzing how you can improve them to elevate your overall appearance.
Tip #7: Set Boundaries With People
Last but not least, life-changing Tip number seven—one of my absolute favorites. I want to talk about boundaries, specifically setting boundaries with men.
Why are boundaries so important? Because they’re the key to elevating yourself, your status, and your social standing to the next level. While boundaries can be set with anyone—family, friends, even yourself—I want to focus on setting them with men, because this is something many women are not taught.
As women, we’re often raised to accommodate men. This has been ingrained in our culture for generations because we live in a patriarchal society. But in order not to become a commodity to someone else, we must learn how to set boundaries, and feel confident doing so. There is still a stigma around how women “should” behave, and we need to break free from those expectations.
Setting clear boundaries with men is crucial to protect your worth, your peace, and your integrity. Don’t be afraid to assert what you need and make it clear when something is not acceptable.
A lot of women feel uncomfortable setting boundaries with men. They feel like they have to accommodate them, because we’ve been conditioned this way by society. In some cultures, this expectation is even stronger, while in others, it may be less prominent. But the unfortunate truth is that across the world, this still happens, and it’s likely to continue until we, as a collective, start setting and sticking to our boundaries.
So, what kind of boundaries am I talking about? It could be something as simple as a woman feeling she cannot say “no.” This is so important. A woman should always feel empowered to say no when she wants to. She must understand that she is not here to please everyone. Of course, as human beings, we want to connect with the opposite sex, and in some ways, we want to please them the way we expect them to please us.
But there’s a healthy balance in how we approach this, and an unhealthy one when women feel the need to please men all the time. Unfortunately, in today’s harsh dating climate, this is a trend that’s growing stronger—and it’s damaging.
Women have become somewhat more desperate at times, constantly putting men on a pedestal. We worry about what they think, what they’ll do, and whether they might leave us. This mindset causes us to give away our power. The reality is, it should be the other way around. In history, it has been.
If women were less desperate, less afraid of being alone, and more comfortable setting boundaries, we would be able to keep our power. We would make men pursue us, ensuring that we are the ones choosing the partner, rather than feeling as if men are the ones choosing whether to be with us.
There are men like that in the world, but unfortunately, they’re becoming fewer and fewer. What’s important, though, is that you learn how to set boundaries with men. By doing so, you’ll start attracting a different type of man—a better one, who will treat you better.
Believe me when I say that learning how to set boundaries is one of the most valuable investments you can make in your personal life, especially when it comes to your dating life. And that’s one of the main goals I have with my content: to help you along a better path and empower you. Ultimately, that is my mission here, and it’s why I do what I do.
Conclusion
In conclusion, embracing these life-changing tips will not only elevate your appearance and mindset but also empower you to take control of your life in a way that reflects the value and worth you bring to the world. Remember, true elegance and success start from within—it’s about setting boundaries, prioritizing yourself, and investing in your personal growth. When you approach life with intention, confidence, and a commitment to self-care, you will attract the right opportunities, relationships, and experiences. So take these lessons, implement them in your daily life, and watch how you transform into the best version of yourself—because you deserve it.